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Here are some dress code examples and what you and your date should wear in each scenario.
Traditionally, the black tie was solely a bow tie.
Suspenders are always an option under a dinner jacket, although not required.
If he doesn’t own a tux, he can rent one or opt to buy one.
One common misconception is that black tie also means black dress.
Well, except one color.
Many debutante balls require the debutantes to wear white gowns (some even require a full skirt).
Most of the confusion around what “black tie” means for women is attached to dress length.
Traditionally, women only wore long evening gowns at black tie events.
Modern black tie attire for women often translates to a very dressy cocktail dress.
However, when it comes to formal events, it’s always better to be overdressed than underdressed.
Whether you go long, short, or tea-length, keep it appropriate.
A formal debutante ball is not the place for a low-cut, high-slit, tight-fitting dress.
Remember, your date will be in a tuxedo, so you shouldn’t be in a sundress.
And the same goes for a trendy jumpsuit.
Some jumpsuits are made in dressier fabrics and are showcased along with evening gowns in stores.
However, that’s not the only thing that’s different between white tie and black tie.
One unique element of the white tie ensemble for men is a white waistcoat.
The waistcoat is not interchangeable with a cummerbund for white tie events.
The shirt should be a formal white shirt with a stiff bosom and winged collar.
Shoes should be well-shined patent leather, worn with tall, formal black socks.
White tie is the most formal attire option, so only a full-length ball gown will do.
Don’t worry about wearing gloves as a guest unless it’s explicitly written on the invitation.
And if you’re in a long dress, no one can see how high your heels are anyway.
