Consider these thoughtful sympathy gifts when pondering alternatives to flowers.

Knowing precisely what to offer during someones most tragic time can be difficult, and certainly delicate.

How Much Should You Spend On A Sympathy Gift?

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Those close to the family typically spend between $50 and $100, sometimes more.

More casual acquaintances might spend anywhere from $25 to $50, sometimes more if budget allows.

Instead, gift the grieving family restaurant and meal delivery gift cards they can use whenever the need strikes.

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House-Cleaning Service

Understandably, household chores can easily fall by the wayside for grieving families.

The same goes for yard services, or even offering to do their laundry for a few weeks.

Etsy and other online markets offer customized and engraved items that can be used as memory keepers.

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Additionally, formal photo books can be reserved and filled in later at the familys leisure.

A dedicated memorial stone or charitably planted tree could be an extremely touching gesture for the grieving family.

It’s always a good idea to bring over coloring books or games for grieving children.

Avoid Gifting Alcohol

Always avoid alcohol when considering what to send when someone dies instead of flowers.

Beer, wine, and liquor are generally best left out of the equation during an emotional time.

Perhaps consider bringing over a pitcher ofhomemade sweet teaor lemonade instead.