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I have to start with the requisite Appalachian caveat: We were very lucky.

Our home was spared from falling trees, though homes on our street were destroyed.

Our cars were safe inside a garage, though many of our neighbors werent so fortunate.

ASHEVILLE, NORTH CAROLINA - OCTOBER 03: An aerial view of flood damage wrought by Hurricane Helene along the Swannanoa River on October 3, 2024 in Asheville, North Carolina. At least 200 people were killed in six states in the wake of the powerful hurricane which made landfall as a Category 4. President Joe Biden took an aerial tour of the devastated region yesterday and ordered the deployment of 1,000 active duty U.S. soldiers to assist with storm relief efforts and reinforce the North Carolina National Guard. (Photo by Mario Tama/Getty Images)

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Thirty minutes later, Jordan and the dog arrived at the back door soaking wet.

Jordan is a Gulf Coast native who grew up weathering hurricanes regularly.

He said, Its bad.

An aerial view of flood damage brought by Hurricane Helene

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We all know the Mister Rogers quote: Look for the helpers.

We climbed over colossal trees that had fallen, some 20 inches in diameter.

We held hands to avoid the frayed power lines like snakes sunning themselves on every street.

Theyve come along to housing authorities to see who needed what.

As I unloaded, I was stopped dead by our large mixing bowl, still hot to the touch.

We grieve and we celebrate.

We name the ways we were lucky.

ItisThanksgiving, after all.

Helene was a reminder (though we couldve done with a gentler one, sheesh!)

that being alive means surrendering to the whims of the universe.