There are a handful of essential party tips that every Southern host must know.
But if you’re new to the entertaining game, don’t fret.
Here are the top sevenentertaining commandmentsthat every Southern host swears by.
For others, creating an invitation only invites stress, andprepackaged dips and ready-made saladsare a veritable lifesaver.
For entertaining amateurs, delegation can be your best friend.
Think Like a Guest
Before your guests arrive, do a dry run of your own party.
Is the music too loud for easy conversation?
Does the buffet line flow smoothly?
Is the coffee ready for that first warm cup or carafe of requested coffee?
Will guests have a place to stash their coats and bags?
Are therefresh flowersor greenery clippings around the room?
Does the house smell nice upon entry?
Is there a clean hand towel in the powder room?
The best hosts are the ones who seem like they’re actually enjoying themselves.
Setting the tone also means setting clear expectations.
Are you hosting cocktails and appetizers or a sit-down dinner?
This also naturally gives those who need to slip out the door an opportunity to leave without causing disruption.
But what matters the most is how you handle the hiccupsno matter how big or small.
If the flowers wilt, grab some greenery from the backyard.
If the pound cake falls, call the bakery.
Chances are, your guests won’t even notice something went wrong.
Be Prepared
The easiest way to be prepared is knowing a list is your friend.
Jot down anything you oughta accomplish before your doorbell rings so that nothing slips through the cracks.
Think about what serving pieces you need in advance.
If you’re serving wine, go ahead and kick off the bottle.
And speaking of foodyou should always cook (or buy) more than you think you might need.
However, we draw the line at outsourcing the main course.
If you’re hosting, this one’s on you, even if it means picking something up.
