No matter how much I plan, the final 30 minutes before adinner partyis pure mayhem.

But last week something amazing happened.

Everythingand I mean EVERYTHINGwas completely finished 45 minutes before guests were scheduled to arrive!

Southern Living Fennel and Orange Salad on a platter to serve

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No jokeI literally had time to calmly and carefully paint my nails (and even let them dry!)

before the first guest knocked on the door.

It was a party miracle.

Southern Living Slow Cooker Braised Short Ribs on a platter ready to serve

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Heres what I served and how it all worked out super smoothly.

What’s the Secret to Hosting Without the Stress?

Start with a smart menu.

Southern Living Gouda Grits in a bowl ready to serve topped with butter

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And in the past, it has usually been something Ive never made before.

For this party, I chose recipes that were blessed by theSouthern LivingTest Kitchen.

We were all shocked to discover that we actually liked the slow cooker version better.

Both were just right for balancing the rich, meaty short ribs.

Outsource Appetizers and Dessert

Do yourself a favor and dont make every darn thing.

You know that one friend who insists on showing up 20 minutes before the party is supposed to start?

Put her in charge of bringing anappetizer.

Bakery cakes can be super-pricey, but they are a huge time-saver.

If you have a friend or a husband who loves baking, let them do what they do best.

My husband prefers baking to cooking, because he likes precision and the security of following a trusted recipe.

So I asked him to make the 2-layer chocolate cake that he always makes.

So it was a win-win!

So there you have it.

And good company, of course.

Good luck, and bon appetit!