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Let’s get real: Monograms are, in fact, a mandatory element of Southern style.

They make a statement.

They make your statement.

Monogrammed Napkins

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Monograms put a personal spin on everything from tote bags and personalized cufflinks to silverware and pocket squares.

Monograms can also be tricky.

Mastering the order (“What goes in the middle?")

Traditional Monogram Format

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can be complicated and downright confusing.

But knowing how to present them is key to telling your personal story.

There are many different shapes, sizes, and weightsplus many color options.

Traditional Monogram Format

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What’s the proper order?

Should everything be an upper-case letter?

The last name initial (center) is larger than those on either side.

Two Letter Monogram Format

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Start with the double name initials stacked.

Then the initial of your married name is in the center, followed by the maiden name initial.

The double name initials, when stacked, should be the same size as the maiden name initial.

Double Name Monogram After Marriage

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The married last name initial (center) will be the largest.

The last name initial (center) is larger than the first name initials.

The two last name initials (center) will be larger than the two first name initials.

Multiple Middle Name Monogram

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The two last name initials (center) will be larger.

Traditional Couple Monogram

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Double Last Name Couple Monogram

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Hyphenated Last Name Monogram

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