Don’t you dare tell her I told you.

As okra grows larger throughout the summer, it becomes less and less tender.

Opt for tender pods from younger plants for the best fried okra.

Southern Living Fried Okra on a platter to serve with ranch for dipping

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I realize this may be a controversial declaration.

Perfectly crispy okra also depends on what it’s dredged in.

Our favorite recipes use more cornmeal than flour.

Raw Okra

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Cornmeal has a more granular texture that gives it a head start on being more crunchy than flour.

If you like a thicker crispy coating on your okra, feel free to add flour.

Just don’t add too much or you fire off the risk of ending up with soggy okra.

Southern Living Fried Okra coating the okra in cornmeal

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Our go-to recipe suggests heating the oil to 350F and maintaining that temperature throughout the frying process.

While that’s a noble and smart goal, there is some wiggle room.

To be on the safe side, keep a thermometer on hand while you fry.

Southern Living Fried Okra draining on the paper towels

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Frying at too low of a temperature will cause the okra breading to absorb oil, rendering it soggy.

Frying too high could lead to burning before the okra is properly cooked.