Its about what you say and how you say it.
Last year, my friend received 15 wedding invitations.
This stacked calendar was a dream come true for a social butterfly like Sally.

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But declining an invitation requires a generous helping of thoughtfulness and a healthy dose of tact.
Here’s how to graciously turn down an invitation of any kind.
Declining Wedding Invitations
Of all invitations, a wedding invite requires the most thoughtful response.

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It’s also an opportunity to share well-wishes for the bride and groom.
If your friend reaches out about a birthday party via email, it’s fine to respond via email.
If a phone number is listed on the invitation, it’s best to call.
Never Do This One Thing
The only thing you should never, ever do is notrespond.
A polite host will never ask whyyou will not be in attendance.
Pair your deflection with sincere thanks for the invitation.
Even if you don’t want to attend, receiving an invitation is always nice.
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