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Cruise travel has come a long way.

Know that its ok to split up!

Don’t force every person to go on every excursion or attend every evening performance on the ship.

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Instead, White suggests talking about things in advance and setting some ground rules.

A loose plan where everyone feels heard helps reduce tension and maximize fun, says Denison.

Denison is an advocate of togetherness in moderation.

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This, too, can be discussed before anyone sets foot on board the ship.

Family of three on a cruise ship on a river in Europe

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