Whether referred to as a sercy ora happy,hostess giftsare a small gesture from a guest.
As a culture of etiquette, Southern visitors know not to arrive anywhere empty-handed.
After all, we inherited graciousness from ourmatriarchsand know social standards and expectations nearly by heart.
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And if we might falter, we can always refer to Amy Vanderbilt or Emily Post.
According to the latter, A gift is a lovely way to thank your host for their hospitality."
So what do the South’s favoritehostssay?
Do they want, need, or expect a hostess gift?
In short, yes, but the answer is a bit more complex than that.
Most hosts agree that a gift is not expected but is appreciated.
You make acquaintances at a restaurant, but you make lifelong friends sharing a meal in someones home.
Waguespack adds that it’s a tradition she hopes never goes out of style.
I would argue that if the gift is unexpected it makes it all the more special!
While hosts usually enjoy the task, its not a small feat to plan a party.
The gift of opening up your home is always well accompanied by a small gesture of appreciation.
I enjoy adding a small orchid or seasonal plant to a traditional chinoiserie cache pot.
