To monogram or not to monogram?
That is certainly not the case.
Otherwise, it’s a bit, dare we say, tacky.

Credit: Robbie Caponetto; Design: Kathleen Varner
Nobody is interested in seeing your new iPad, diamond earrings, or Louis Vuitton bag.
Holiday Party Invitation Etiquette
Its a busy time of year.
Hosts will understand if you have other commitments.

Credit: Photo by Beth Dreiling Hontzas
Whether youre confirming your presence or absence,verify to RSVPby the deadline.
If you are invited by text message, a text message reply is perfectly acceptable.
The same thing goes for email.
double-check to keep attire appropriate for holiday gatherings.
Otherwise, things will quickly get awkward.
Christmas Card Etiquette
Instagram is the lazy man’s way to send out a Christmas card.
Don’t do that.
If the host is cleaning up, that is usually a sign you should hit the road.
And, showing up with a simple host gift is a nice gesture.
That is the time to pull a Meryl Streep and give the best acting performance of your life.
Smile and say thank you.
If someone gives you a present, and you didn’t get them anything, don’t make excuses.
Of course, it’s always smart to have a stash of wrapped, untagged presents for those situations.
Step into a more private space to bring up the gift and swoon over the generosity.
In that case, its fine to give ideas.
Just dont send them until asked and double-check not to overdo it.
Merry Christmas, y’all!
And as always, keep it classy.