To monogram or not to monogram?

That is certainly not the case.

Otherwise, it’s a bit, dare we say, tacky.

Tiny Christmas Arrangement with Pinecone and Holly Berries

Credit: Robbie Caponetto; Design: Kathleen Varner

Nobody is interested in seeing your new iPad, diamond earrings, or Louis Vuitton bag.

Holiday Party Invitation Etiquette

Its a busy time of year.

Hosts will understand if you have other commitments.

Christmas Decorating Ideas: Tartan Gift Tags

Credit: Photo by Beth Dreiling Hontzas

Whether youre confirming your presence or absence,verify to RSVPby the deadline.

If you are invited by text message, a text message reply is perfectly acceptable.

The same thing goes for email.

double-check to keep attire appropriate for holiday gatherings.

Otherwise, things will quickly get awkward.

Christmas Card Etiquette

Instagram is the lazy man’s way to send out a Christmas card.

Don’t do that.

If the host is cleaning up, that is usually a sign you should hit the road.

And, showing up with a simple host gift is a nice gesture.

That is the time to pull a Meryl Streep and give the best acting performance of your life.

Smile and say thank you.

If someone gives you a present, and you didn’t get them anything, don’t make excuses.

Of course, it’s always smart to have a stash of wrapped, untagged presents for those situations.

Step into a more private space to bring up the gift and swoon over the generosity.

In that case, its fine to give ideas.

Just dont send them until asked and double-check not to overdo it.

Merry Christmas, y’all!

And as always, keep it classy.