My grandmother spent weeks leading up to the holiday assembling the perfect table.

Trotting out the once-a-yearChristmas china.

And shopping for ornaments to personalize each place setting.

White and Gold China on Teal and Rose Table Cloth for Thanksgiving

Credit: Hector Manuel Sanchez; Produced: Page Mullins

It really softens the overall look of the table.

Upholstered chairs are another option if youre buying new.

Just remember, comfort is important."

She also recommends honoring any scratches, dings, or dents.

“Dont be shy to use your table.

Keep putting signs of life on it.

It can be so intimidating to sit at someones table that looks too perfect,” she says.

Glass and brass are a great combo."

Texture and scale are important factors too.

She suggests pairing the classic look with fresh patterns and artwork to bring your own personality to the space.

I love good old-fashioned brown furniture but with more youthful patterns and artwork," she says.

“Artwork can completely transform a room and can arguably make the biggest impact in a space.

It gives a fun twist on the family heirloom,” says Hart.

The process can be a bit different for each piece too.