Lest we risk grandmas ire.

Here are 15 unspoken rules of Southern family gatherings.

You always know who is showing up with the green bean casserole and who is bringing the macaroni-and-cheese.

Boy eating cake with sister and grandmother

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Best not to step on any toes by bringing someone elses dish!

Theres no shame in a small to-go plate amongst family!

We let it slide.

Shout Hallelujah Potato Salad

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Expect the Fine ChinaOr Paper Plates

The food is so good that it doesnt really matter.

Were not surprised or slighted either way.

Folks show up early and stay late!

Roasted Broccoli Macaroni and Cheese

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At least one family member will end up napping on the chair in the living room.

Heck, usually the kids table is even more fun, so no one cares.

Avoid a scolding by your grandma, and just leave it in the car.

Arriving Early

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It becomes second nature, and its best if newcomers sit back unless prompted to go first.

Ah, to be young.