There are specific rules that Southerners know.
Remember that glare your mother gave you to keep you in line when you were at friends' houses?
Come on, you know that glare.
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Erica Dunhill
Great House Guest Etiquette
Never arrive empty-handed.
Give a host gift that fits with your particular weekend scenario.
Never open their refrigerator without invitationor asking first.
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This rule is a delicate scenario.
Once you’ve spent the night and settled in, then it’s okay to serve yourself.
Never interfere with their pets.
What does that mean exactly?
Your job as a houseguest is to tell them how adorable their pet is.
Also, don’t bring your pet unless invited to do so.
The same rules apply to children.
Never pack disorganized.
Pack as neatly and as minimally as possible.
Never use all their hot water when showering.
Never be in a situation to horrify someone you pass in the hallway.
Always leave your room fully clothed.
If you don’t have a good read on the situationdress for the day before leaving the room.
Never make the hosts do all the cooking and the cleaning.
Never make it obvious that you think you’re on vacation.
Remember that you’re a human with working parts sharing in this home for a short while.
If the garbage is full, offer to take it out.
If you see the morning paper on your way inside, pick it up.
Never assume that it’s okay not to make your bed.
If it’s an elaborately made bed, take a picture before entering it.
Put the whole room back together exactly as you left it.
Never leave without saying thank you.
After leaving for your visit, repeat your appreciation in a handwritten thank-you note.
